{"id":668,"date":"2021-08-25T07:11:46","date_gmt":"2021-08-25T05:11:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/clankypromuze.cz\/?p=668"},"modified":"2021-08-25T07:11:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-25T05:11:47","slug":"sebelitost-je-smrt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/clankypromuze.cz\/?p=668","title":{"rendered":"Sebel\u00edtost JE SMRT"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Jedn\u00edm z nejhor\u0161\u00edch stav\u016f mysli mu\u017ee je sebel\u00edtost. Nen\u00ed to nic jin\u00e9ho, \u200b\u200bne\u017e \u010dist\u00e1, esenci\u00e1ln\u00ed slabost. Vezme Ti kontrolu nad tv\u00fdm \u017eivotem, ud\u011bl\u00e1 z tebe otroka, shod\u00ed t\u011b v o\u010d\u00edch ostatn\u00edch, zp\u016fsob\u00ed, \u017ee ztrat\u00ed\u0161 p\u0159\u00e1tel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sebel\u00edtost je tekut\u00fd p\u00edsek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V moment\u011b, kdy Ti za\u010dne b\u00fdt l\u00edto sebe sama, bude t\u011b to st\u00e1le vtahovat hloub\u011bji a hloub\u011bji. Najednou se v\u0161e v tv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b za\u010dne d\u00edt tob\u011b a ty v\u016fbec neuvid\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee jsou to jen ud\u00e1losti, kter\u00e9 se jednodu\u0161e d\u011bj\u00ed a ve skute\u010dnosti nejde specificky o tebe. Toto je pok\u0159iven\u00e9 zrcadlo, kter\u00e9 z tebe d\u011bl\u00e1 ob\u011b\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jak\u00e9 jsou p\u0159\u00edznaky?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V dob\u011b, kdy se m\u00e1\u0161 t\u011b\u017eko, p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed\u0161 nad t\u00edm, \u017ee v \u017eivot\u011b nedost\u00e1vaj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 \u0161ance, mo\u017enosti, p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti \u2026 Prvn\u00ed ko\u0159eny sebel\u00edtosti.
Nebo p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed\u0161 nad t\u00edm, \u017ee nevypad\u00e1\u0161 dost dob\u0159e, kv\u016fli tomu si t\u011b nikdo nev\u0161\u00edm\u00e1, \u017ee na vin\u011b je genetika a proto se Ti nevyplat\u00ed sportovat. Sebel\u00edtost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

U\u017e dlouho si single a na vin\u011b jsou v\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed, jen ty jsi v po\u0159\u00e1dku \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nebo m\u00e1\u0161 na hovno man\u017eelstv\u00ed a chyba je na stran\u011b boha, partnerky, st\u00e1tu, \u0161\u00e9fa, tch\u00fdn\u011b, d\u011bt\u00ed \u2026 Vid\u00ed\u0161 ten vzorec? Nikdy to nen\u00ed tv\u00e1 chyba a zodpov\u011bdnost. St\u00e1le \u010dek\u00e1\u0161, \u017ee se objev\u00ed hrdina v nale\u0161t\u011bn\u00fdch zbroji a vy\u0159e\u0161\u00ed tv\u016fj z\u00e1pas. \u010cek\u00e1\u0161, kdo zm\u011bn\u00ed tvou realitu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ok, sebel\u00edtost n\u011bkdy nen\u00ed takov\u00e1 zjevn\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt i takto. Jde\u0161 kolem p\u011bkn\u00e9ho domu s baz\u00e9nem a v tv\u00e9 hlav\u011b se rozb\u011bhne film – „Jak\u00e9 by to bylo \u2026“, kter\u00fd pokra\u010duje sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159em, kde je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee majitel domu je ur\u010dit\u011b zlod\u011bj, kter\u00fd si to nezaslou\u017e\u00ed tak jako ty. Jen\u017ee tob\u011b nikdo nic nedaroval, tak jako jemu \u2026 A u\u017e se lituje\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jak by to tedy m\u011blo b\u00fdt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zkus se na to pod\u00edvat re\u00e1ln\u00e9. Jedin\u00e9 co m\u00e1\u0161 je tv\u016fj \u010das a \u017eivot. Z m\u00e9ho pohledu m\u00e1\u0161 je\u0161t\u011b povinnost v\u016f\u010di sob\u011b sam\u00e9mu ud\u011blat z toho to nejlep\u0161\u00ed, co se d\u00e1. POVINNOST.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nam\u00edsto pl\u00e1\u010de nad sebou, zvedni zadek a ud\u011blej prvn\u00ed krok k tomu, o \u010dem mluv\u00ed\u0161. Ameri\u010dan\u00e9 \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed: „Dej sv\u00e9 pen\u00edze tam, kde jsou tv\u00e9 \u00fasta.“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nezhadzuj \u00fasp\u011bch ostatn\u00edch, inspiruj se. Nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00ed d\u016fm ve m\u011bst\u011b se nestav\u00ed tak, \u017ee zbo\u0159it v\u0161echny ostatn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nen\u00ed to jednoduch\u00e9, ale v tv\u00e9 hlav\u011b nem\u00e1 m\u00edt m\u00edsto z\u00e1vist, porovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, pozice ob\u011bti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Roli v tomto sm\u011bru n\u00e1m zadal Theodore Roosevelt: „Ud\u011blej to co m\u016f\u017ee\u0161, s t\u00edm, co m\u00e1\u0161, tam kde jsi.“ Tato my\u0161lenka je tv\u016fj spojenec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nep\u0159ej si \u017eivot nikoho jin\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jedn\u00edm z nejhor\u0161\u00edch stav\u016f mysli mu\u017ee je sebel\u00edtost. Nen\u00ed to nic jin\u00e9ho, \u200b\u200bne\u017e \u010dist\u00e1, esenci\u00e1ln\u00ed slabost. Vezme Ti kontrolu nad tv\u00fdm \u017eivotem, ud\u011bl\u00e1 z tebe otroka, shod\u00ed t\u011b v o\u010d\u00edch ostatn\u00edch, zp\u016fsob\u00ed, \u017ee ztrat\u00ed\u0161 p\u0159\u00e1tel. Sebel\u00edtost je tekut\u00fd p\u00edsek. V moment\u011b, kdy Ti za\u010dne b\u00fdt l\u00edto sebe sama, bude t\u011b to st\u00e1le vtahovat hloub\u011bji a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":669,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_sitemap_exclude":false,"_sitemap_priority":"","_sitemap_frequency":"","tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-668","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-pro-muze"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t